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My 2021 Lagos Fashion Week Experience

November 5, 2021 2 Comments

Fashion week may have come and gone but the experience still lingers! And it won’t be great if I don’t share it with you, loves. I attended Lagos Fashion Week for the first time and I must admit, it felt great working with all the creatives and learning while at it!

I got to work backstage, fixing the runway clothes, dressing up the models and basically just taking part in rehearsals.

I applied to Intern at the Lagos Fashion Week and so when I got the mail, I was a bit nervous. Because it was my first time, I didn’t know what to expect. I wasn’t sure of what it would entail but I was sure I wanted to do it and boy! I’m grateful I did because I’ve always wanted to see what goes on backstage as we’re so used to seeing the finished work and the glam that is presented to us. Anyway, let’s dive in already. Lol

Day 1

I went into day 1 with so much energyyy!!! I was eager to see everything start already. I was itching to see all the amazing designs that would be on the runway but guess what? My energy died in no time! This was because we waited for 4 hours before the backstage work started. By the time we were starting to prepare for the main show, I was exhausted but I still managed to put in the work. At about 6pm, we were done with fittings, steaming and ready for the show to start. The show started some minutes past 6 and I was assigned 4 models to dress. As soon as the show started, I started to feel alive again because the whole atmosphere changed; designers started coming in, there was loud music and majorly because I got to dress people up (if you know me well, you’d know how much I love play dressing up.)

I repeated the dress up process for as long as the show was on and I didn’t even complain because I was enjoying it! The show ended at about 10pm and we called it a day!

Fun Fact: I didn’t eat before coming in for Day 1. I got to eat in between though. I wish someone had told me to eat before going in.

So yes, if you’re going for the Lagos Fashion Week, please make sure you eat before going. You’re welcome!

Day 2

“What doesn’t kill you, prepares you for another day!” -Rayha, 2021.

I guess you thought that quote was about life, lol… Bruhhh!! I ate like someone that was going to the war front before going in for Day 2. I stuffed my tummy and had a lot of snack in my bag just in case… haha!

Well, Day 2 was much more lighter than Day 1, perhaps, because we didn’t have to wait for long before starting or because I was already enjoying the work process from Day 1. Anyway, in terms of the process, Day 2 was a slight repetition. The only difference was – a different set of designers were on the runway, and it took longer to start and end because it was the closing ceremony. They were more performance and more designers compared to the first day.

My Outfit

I was working and needed to be comfortable so I kept it really simple. We also had to be on black. I tried to bring in a little bit of street style too because that’s what the Lagos Fashion Week is about.

What I loved about the Lagos Fashion Week

– The opportunity to meet other creatives and key industry players

– The interpretation of street style from different creatives’ perspective

– The decor outside was lovely and also great for taking pictures

– The runway stage and lighting

– The choice of location.

One major thing I didn’t like about the fashion week was the fact that they did not keep to time. Show times were delayed and they were behind schedule. Well like they say “This is Lagos”.

Runway Shows

They were so many designers who put up a show at the Lagos Fashion Week but my favorite in no particular order were;

– Emmy Kasbit

– Assian

– Ejiro Amos Tafiri

– Cynthia Abila

– Austrian Lace

– Bridget Awosika

Tips on attending Lagos Fashion Week as a Newbie

– Go early so you can have enough time to get all the dopeass pictures

– Go with a friend or try to make new friends while you’re there. Trust me, you don’t want to be standing or sitting alone while the show is going on. You also need someone to help you capture ‘em nice angles

– Eat! Eat! Eat!! Honestly, if you’re going to be working, I advise you eat before going. However, if you’re attending (as a VIP), I guess there’s a food for you in between.

– Network! Be open to meeting people because trust me, it helps. I’m not the best at this but I tried while I was there

– Lastly, have a full battery and a standing power bank because you don’t want to miss capturing all the beautiful moments.

FAQs

When I posted my Lagos Fashion Week pictures, I got a lot of questions but the most common were:

– How do I get my brand to be on the runway?

Well, I’m not Omoyemi Akerele lol! But one thing I know is that Lagos Fashion Week has a talent discovery platform called Green Access and it aims to discover raw talent from Nigeria and encourage them. So I would advice you follow @lagosfashionweekofficial and @stylehousefiles on Instagram to stay updated so you don’t miss out when the application is out.

Also, make sure you stay on top of your game! Keep doing amazing stuff and put your brand out there!

– How can I attend?

For VIP guests, I guess you’d have to be invited particularly now that Covid is outside!

Tickets are also sold but you have to stay informed so you don’t miss out because they get sold out really fast!!

If you’d like to attend as an intern, member of the press, production team etc, you would have to apply for the position you want when application forms are out. (it’s usually a month or so before the main event)

Lastly, if your goal is to be a model on the runway, there’s usually a casting call for models.

And that’s it on my experience at the Lagos Fashion Week 2021, guys. I hope you enjoyed this and you found this helpful. Also, I hope I was able to answer your questions as you’d love me to.

Before I say goodbye, I’d like to know if you’ve ever attended a fashion week. Kindly share your thoughts and experiences with me in the comments.

Thanks for reading.

Until my next post,

stay informed!

Rayha.

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Finding your style: Episode 6 (Finale)

August 6, 2020 4 Comments

Hey there!

It’s the final episode of “Finding Your Style” and I’m so glad to be on this episode. In the previous episodes, we had several creatives sharing their journey with us.

In this episode, yours truly will be sharing her style journey with you and just like we’ve done previously, I’d love to introduce myself to you. My name is Huraira Abdul and I own www.rayhaxo.com. It’s no news that I’m a fashion enthusiast; I own a womenswear fashion brand here and I do Fashion modeling (sometimes). Okay this feels weird, kindly read more about me here. Thank you.

Style to me is an expression of my thoughts, feelings and emotions. It is how I want to be seen, felt and addressed.

When it comes to style, it’s the little details that does it for me. I love to make a statement while keeping it simple.

How I found my style

I’ll date the journey to finding my style back to my childhood days. As a child, I enjoyed the idea of dressing myself. In my eyes no one could get it right when it comes to dressing me, not even my mum… lol.

As I grew older, I became more aware of myself. I took note of my body type, my size, what I was comfortable in and what I enjoyed wearing the most. As a petite framed lady, I realized that not everything works for me and that’s fine. For example, you’ll hardly find me wearing skirts; not because they’re not beautiful, but because I don’t feel comfortable and they don’t compliment my body type. ( I try to make it work here sometimes tho)

I love the idea of colors, prints and patterns as well. I love that I can make statements with them. Presentation also matters to me, I love to look smart and sharp.

How I Stay True To My Style

Avoid Following Trends: While it’s okay to stay stylish in every season, it’s not okay to be a person of trends. Trends come and go! Being a person of trends comes with a lot of disadvantages, you’ll end up being a person that owns fashionable items that they can’t use… lol! So if you ask me, I’ll say; I always find a way to incorporate trends into my style without altering it.

Being Confident in Myself : You already know that overconfidence is not a good thing! (Well, if you didn’t know before, now you do) With the right amount of confidence, you’ll own your style any day, anytime and anywhere regardless of what people will think or say.

Constantly Remind Myself of My Awesomeness and Uniqueness: You’re doing just fine and as long as you’re comfortable and powerful in what you wear, you’re good. Don’t bring yourself into thinking otherwise.

Tips on finding your personal style 

Study Yourself: You need to take time to understand who you are. Your personality plays a great factor in finding your style. Discover what works for you. Everything is not for everyone and that’s totally fine.

Be Open Minded: Do not confine yourself into a box. It’s okay to explore different styles before finding what works perfectly for you. There’s a style for everyone.

Be attentive: Take note of the things that catch your attention when you go shopping. Take note of your body type and the kind of fashion items you find yourself fantasizing about the most. This will help you greatly.

Copy like a pro: We all have role models, Fashion icons etc and while it’s okay to be inspired by them, it’s not okay to do exactly like them because they’re not you and you’re not them (It’s as simple as that). Take necessary notes from them and incorporate into your own lifestyle. This will give your own uniqueness.

Whew!!! Everything that has a beginning, has an end and I’m glad to say that finding your style episodes has come to a beautiful end.

I’m grateful to all the bloggers who collaborated with me on these episodes. I’m grateful to you; my amazing readers. Thank you for staying around through my inconsistencies. It’s been from Episode 1–6 and I couldn’t have gotten here without y’all.

I hope that you’ve been inspired by at least 2-3 episodes (if not all) and I look forward to doing more with you and for you.

Until my next post,

I. LOVE. YOU.

Rayha

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Finding your style; Episode 5

June 7, 2020 2 Comments

Hey Loves!

It’s been a while I said “welcome back to Rayhaxo.com” Well, welcome back! I hope you’re doing good? I’ve been having off & on sick days so I decided to take a break but I’m a lot better now and I’m glad to be continuing the style episodes from where we stopped. In this Episode; TobiFusika who is a Faith, Fashion & Lifestyle blogger will be sharing her style journey with us. She shared some insightful tips and I’m not about to spill it out to you before you read through so I’ll just let you find out yourself. I’ll see you at the end!

Hi everyone, my name is Oluwatobi Ogunfusika (You can call me TobiFusika) and I am a Faith, Fashion and Lifestyle blogger at thetobifusika.com. I also have a podcast (anchor.fm/tobifusika) and mentor young girls (www.instagram.com/ysbeautiful) during my free time.

Style to me is staying true to yourself and not putting yourself in a box. I’m a creative so I dress like one. I love being adventurous with my style. I can go from rugged to minimalist to sporty to glamorous to anakraish( a new word- google it). I don’t like to be confined. I love experimenting with as many looks as my body type,size and budget would allow me.

How I found my style: I discovered that since I was little that I didn’t like looking like everyone else. I didn’t like wearing what everyone else was wearing. I didn’t like it in a condescending way I.e. wanting to be the only fab one in the room. I wished(and still wish) everyone would discover their style and what works for them. I wished that they would wear what fit them instead of wearing what everyone else was wearing because it was trendy or the most expensive thing on the block or because of the designer.

I found mine by designing my outfits from a young age. Nigerian tailors were popular for handing catalogue over to anyone who wanted to make an outfit. Funny thing was that I would take a plain paper from the house and draw what I wanted. My mum always smiled and she never put me down but encouraged me. Most of the time, the tailors got my designs right. I started designing really early and this made me confident in my style.

Fun fact:- I love Ankara DIYs. You can check out my 100 days of Ankara challenge on my Instagram Story Highlights (Link:www.instagram.com/tobifusika)

How I stay true to my style:

Ensure that I’m not jumping on trends- Why do you want to get that fashion item? Really why?. I know its in vogue but you don’t have to get it. Do you have items in your wardrobe that can complement it? Do you have to buy more fashion items to complement it before you can wear it? Do you have a plan to wear it or an event to wear it too? I ask myself these questions before buying anything.

My current size(kg) and body type: My current weight and body size determine what I wear in certain times. When I was less than 55kg, I could get away with wearing short dresses but now that I’ve added some weight, I’m readjusting my entire style.

If your body type changes, your style has to change else you’ll be trying to force the old on the new and it simply won’t work.

Fashion isn’t imagination: Despite what they have told you about feeling good and then looking good, if it doesn’t fit you, it doesn’t fit you. Fashion isn’t what you imagine but what is real. Please look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself the truth. The whole truth and nothing but the truth before you step out. Ask a friend about how you look before stepping out. Get real friends that have an eye for fashion please.

My personality(My growth process): As I grow and mature, I’m realizing that my style changes. I have realized that how I look affects how I’m perceived so I put the work into it. Before I was a fashionista that just didn’t care sometimes like abeg. Lately, I’m putting more effort into how I look every time because who knows who you might meet on the way out. Trust me, it affects how you are perceived overtime.

Tips for finding your personal style

Who are you: You personality is everything when it comes to figuring out your personal style. There are different style personalities: daring, bold, conservative, showstopping, trendy, glamorous,minimalist, modest etc. Deciding this would help you discover who to follow as regards fashion and who to constantly watch out for. Don’t try copying the style of someone whose style personalty is completely different from yours. You’ll find yourself constantly trying to fit in and you’ll be uncomfortable

Body type: There are different body types for women and it should be considered first before choosing any fashion item. We have the triangle or pear shape, apple or inverted triangle shape, hourglass shape, rectangle shape, top hourglass shape. Dress based on your body type. Look for style tricks that would hide your flaws(I wear heels to hide the fact that I’m petite) and use fashion tricks to also improve your best parts and make them looks more fabulous(It could be your face, legs, waist etc).

Your size: I am a petite girl so I can’t wear some things.That’s okay because every body type has its fashion disadvantage. Heels work for me every single day and I wear them effortlessly. High waist outfits are also a plus because they make me look taller. What body type do you have? Try to discover fashion icons, celebrities that have same and try to see if you can try out their looks. Some don’t have great designers so be careful lol.

Budget- Your budget is very important in discovering your style. If you can’t afford it, you can’t afford it. I don’t support breaking the bank to look great. You can look good effortlessly https://thetobifusika.com/style-tiphow-to-look-good-effortlessly-_/

One of my favorite bloggers (www.instagram.com/siainstyle) is a minimalist. She wears only thrifted clothes and she has a store where she also sells them. I’ve seen her put an entire look together that costs N500. So each man to his own and yes, you can make it work.

Okay guys, that’s the end of Tobi’s Story. Wow! That was a very interesting read guys. I’ve known Tobi for 11 years now, we talk almost everyday and I can tell you that I learnt new things from reading this.

The Take Home: Always listen when your friends or people you know generally are called to speak about a topic. You never know what they’re going to spill. Don’t assume that you know them so there’s a possibility that you know what they’re going to say. A wise man once said “Assumptions are always wrong!”

If you read up to this point, thank you for stopping by. I hope that you have learnt a thing or two from this episode.
I’ll see you in the next episode,

Rayha

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Finding your style; Episode 4

May 7, 2020 9 Comments

Hey Fashionistas,

Yes! Fashionistas because if you’ve been following the episodes from the very first to this point, I rate you.
Welcome back to ‘Finding your style’ episodes, I hope that y’all are safe and not going anywhere? I know the lockdown has been relaxed in some places but the numbers are still sky rocketing so please if it’s not necessary stay home. I trust that this will pass.

On Today’s episode, We have Deborah; an Uber stylish blogger sharing her ‘Finding your style’ journey with us. She’s a lifestyle blogger at www.debwritesblog .com and also the founder of debs clothier; an Afrocentric Interior design brand. You can find them here

This particular episode is a little different, I like that she gave it a unique approach by teaching us through her post. Well, at this point, I’ll let you find out more yourself. I’ll see you at the end.

Style for me is a way of expressing myself. So when I’m unhappy, it’s easy for you to tell in how I look. When I’m the most excited in the room, you can also tell. Before becoming a style blogger, I just love to play dress up and wearing whatever makes me comfortable and stylish.

I love when I walk into a room and everyone turns to stare (cover eyes), don’t judge me, it’s just how I have come to be. I’m not really one to jump on trends, I just pick my style and stick to it. I’d describe my style as a bit of classic, glam and edgy/flirty.

Unsure what your style it, ask yourself what you always look out for to buy more when shopping or when you look through your closet.

Below are a few style options and any of this can give you an idea of what your personal style is. If you see yourself tending towards wearing more of any of this, then that’s what your style is.

However, to be more definitive, look through your closet and put together pieces you wear more and de clutter the ones you wear less. The ones you wear more can help you define your personal style and guide you more when shopping for pieces.

In a world of trends, it’s easy to want to fit in and try to dress like others but first ask yourself, ‘Is this my style?’ If the answer is no and you attempt it, you may end up not getting it right. And this will definitely make you feel uncomfortable and discomfort is bad for style. So just do you, and rather, find a way to make your own statement and trend in your personal style.

Okayyyyyy! Rayha here… Lol. I really did enjoy reading this, and boy must I say her style is impeccable. I love how she infuses colors into her style.

Thanks for stopping by guys. I’d love to know your thoughts in the comment box as you already know your feedback is important to me.

I’ll see you in the next episode,

stay safe,

Rayha

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Finding your style; Episode 3

May 2, 2020 7 Comments

Whew! We’re halfway already? How did we get here so fast??
Well, welcome back to the Episodes on ‘Finding your style’. I’m particularly excited about this episode because it’s a little different from the previous episodes. If you missed the previous episodes, you can find them here and here.
In this episode, we’ll be having a guy tell us about his style. I meant it when I said I had my male readers in mind… So, sit back, relax and enjoy!

Abi Gideon Joheobe is the Chief Costumier at PageantCityNg, he is also a commercial Model and a style enthusiast. For him, dressing up started quite early as his mother was into clothing business. He started… errrrmmm, you know what? I’d let you find out yourself in his post. I’ll see you at the end.

“Style to me is a reflection of fashion fused with Personality”.

Well, finding your style is finding some way to communicate your personality through fashion, look for something you will always feel good in when you wear to whatever function or any situation.

Growing up, I became comfortable with the”corporate way ” of dressing. Becoming more mature, I had to tap into my innate divine nature and allow it to be expressed through the way I dress.

How I found my style: My style was derived particularly from my background, my mum had a mental picture of how she wanted her kids to look, then she used to deal on children clothing..

Finding my style was quite easy I must say, although I have tried on several styles in the past until I found the exact one that really interprets me in the way that I want to.

I figured that I love my body/ skin, I saw it as the sun in all its glow and beam. Now considering that, have you ever tried to look at the reflection and view you get from putting a net or any transparent fabric with any design up at the sun. Or when you put up anything that glitters into the sun, be it sequins, ruby, diamond etc.

That’s exactly why I chose to live through anything transparent and shiny, be it; tulle, organza, nets, laces and then sequins, damask, glitter etc. Because always want to see my skin or atleast a part of it, or my body and I want the world to see me as someone who appreciates his skin irrespective.

Staying true to my style: This simply means staying true to me, although as trends come and go, I Infuse that which could blend into my style. My style is bold, simple, comfortable, Unapologetic and a little bit daring.

Style to me is not naturally about fashion and trend or whatnot, it’s more about myself, my image and how I’d like to be addressed or even perceived. Style is me, myself, introducing myself without having to say a word, now I cannot control how people would choose to interpret my style, but the fact still remains that my style is my own.

Staying true to your style is a personal choice, most times new trends might come up and you want to belong, rather than giving in to the trend, why not merge it with your signature style and create something fantastic out of it, thereby following trend and still maintaining your style.

Guys out there can find their style by:

knowing what form of dressing they’re comfortable in

understanding their personality

Understanding their kind of occupation

Your style is really what you make of it.

Daily I get different inspirations on what to wear and how to style it. Styling for me is not about wearing a tuxedo or an agbada I consider that “fashionable” styling is those extra details, the extra pieces and also the extra drama you put into the outfit that makes it an unusual piece. Trends has absolutely nothing to do with styling, a person who has a good sense of style can wear an outfit that is considered out of fashion and still pull it off.

Finding your style should be about what you love, what inspires you and what excites you.

Do not be afraid to play with colors, patterns and stripes. Just be you and be creative.

Rayha signing in here… lol! Hope you had a good read guys? I must say that Gideon’s style is Top notch. I met him sometime last year and I’ve since been drawn to his style and charisma. I love that he ended my saying “Do not be aftraid to play with colors, patterns and stripes.”
So my dear men that believe color is strictly a feminine thing can you see that Gideon isn’t dead from wearing colors?? Lol! please dears don’t be scared to play around colors and patterns… I do hope that this post inspires someone out there to let their alter ego out!

Until the next Episode,

hugs and kisses,

Rayha!

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Finding your style; Episode 2

May 2, 2020 4 Comments

Hey guys,

Happy New Month! I trust you’re good and still staying safe. It feels good to be here again. If you’ve been following my blog, you’ll notice that I started an episode on Finding your style recently. Well if you haven’t, you can find the first episode here.

Today on the second episode, we have another beautiful creative telling us about her style and how she’s been able to build a brand around it. Can we meet her already? Yes!
Have a good read, I’ll see you at the end of this post.

Shalom Scarlet is a Fashion, beauty and lifestyle blogger at rigaonlinne.wordpress.com and here’s what she has to say about ‘Finding her style’

“Style to me is comfort and chic. At the same time, I wouldn’t really overly expose my body in the process of being stylish”

I would say that I feel most stylish in outfits that sit well on my body without much stress and discomfort. This is my mindset when I try to get ready for a day or pick out looks I consider stylish.

How I found my style: I guess I’ll say that I discovered my style quite early as a teenager, and Over the years have just built on that and made it better in ways that I feel most beautiful. I generally settle for looks that adorn my body in the most appealing and comfortable way. So I’ll normally go for something longer and more fitting as opposed to loose fitting wears. I like clothes, skirts or pants that accentuate my figure and are still morally appealing .

How I stay true to my style: Basically, in a world where trends come up frequently, I try to just stay true to my moral values and preference. So even if I have to hop on trend and wear certain things, I’ll still have to figure out ways in which I can incorporate them ie the looks into my personal style and taste. As a result be more comfortable wearing them.

Most recently, with working and the launch of my female wears brand (@_shop.riga on Instagram), my style is evolving more into corporate chic. I like pieces that allow me to restyle for day time and night time and still be comfortable without losing my fashion/style essence.

Did you enjoy reading this? Well I did and I look forwarding to sharing the next episode with y’all in my next post.

Let me know your thoughts in the comment box.

See you in the next episode!

Rayha

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Finding your style: Episode 1

April 28, 2020 7 Comments

Hey there,
I hope you’re well and staying safe? If you’re a new subscriber I’d like to welcome you; I’m glad to have you and I hope you enjoy your stay. And to my old subscribers/readers, welcome back! Thanks for keeping it real.

Earlier this month, I carried out a survey; the essence was to find out how well people understood themselves when it comes to their style. Apparently, a good number of people do not really know/understand their style and so I thought to collaborate with a few like minds (bloggers) to share their journey to discovering their style and staying to it. I decided to do this because having studied the trends on social media and the world generally, I realized that so many people just want to rock the next new fashion that’s out and while that is cool, I also believe that it’s great to set your trend and own it!

Time to cut the long story short! On the First Episode of Finding your style, We have a personal style blogger telling us about her style. When it comes to style she’s actually one of the people that inspires me, I’ve followed her blog and social media for a while; even before I started blogging… okay, at this point, I’m just going to let you meet her. I hope you pick one or two things from her. Have a good read guys!

Hi everyone, my name is Grace Gigi and I am a personal style blogger at https://epiphany29.com/, a women’s wear tailor and a content creator.

To me, Style is personality. It’s a reflection of who I am, the lifestyle I live and my expressions/moods. It’s saying ‘this is me’ without the words. Style is simply identity, a sense of self.

How I found my style:- well first of I’m a reserved and conservative person and due to this personality trait, I’ve always been drawn to items that aren’t too revealing but are comfortable, stylish and represent my personality. And as a child at heart, I am drawn to animated, quirky pieces that make a statement in a subtle way if you know what I mean.

I’ve always been comfortable in free comfortable clothing and when it comes to colors I tend to do a lot of Black and neutrals. I love expressions and inscriptions and I wear a lot of tees so I figured, why not put them together. That’s why and how I own over 30 tees with funny, witty inscriptions on them (mainly in black 😄).

Fun fact:- I make my tees and I also run it as a side gig as well.

How I stay true to my style: I’d like to say that when you’ve found your style, you’d stay true to it easily. You’re not easily swayed by what’s new & trending.

Finding your style means you’ve found what you’re comfortable in, what fits your body type, colors that look good on your skin tone. It means you’ve found what your identity is and if trends easily influence your style, then you’d know you’ve not found your true personal style.

For me, I always find ways to incorporate my style into the trends I find interesting. Like when the boyfriend jeans started trending all over again, it was easy for me to jump on it cos they go so well with tees and sneaks and are super comfortable and stylish too. When people started wearing wrap skirts, I liked them and yes I still paired them with my tees. You just have to find a way to incorporate your style with the trend you like that’s if you must jump on it. Basically, when it comes to trends, I find the ones that I can fine tune to fit me and my personal style. That way I’m staying true to myself and my style.

Tips for finding your personal style- You first of all have to be true to yourself and accept that not everything out there is for you.

Your personality also plays a major role in finding your personal style. Are you conservative or outgoing?

Do you feel comfortable in daring colors, cuts & patterns, do the things you like flatter you body?

When you walk into a store, what kind of items are you drawn to?

Do these items reflect who you are, your pets and moods?

These are some major things to consider when trying to find your personal style.

I hope this post helps someone out there who has been wondering how he/she can find their personal style.

Truth is fashion is everywhere but style is personal.

Until the next episode,

Remain stylish!

Rayha

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24 Years, 24 Lessons!

July 18, 2019 9 Comments

Wow! 24 years feels like 24 days… life is moving really fast and while I’m counting my blessings on this journey, it’s only wise that I visit my archive and pick out a few things I’ve learnt in the last 24 years. There’s quite a lot life has taught but I thought to share just 24 with you because it’s the 24th chapter. So, grab a seat while I share this with you.

Always let people know how you feel about them, they just might not feel the same way, but it’s important they know.
It’s okay to celebrate yourself and your achievements; it’s not bragging.
Practice what you preach.. this is quite explanatory, so no long stories.
Your mental health is as important as your physical health- protect it!
Everyone’s going to hurt you, stick to those who are worth it.
The power to become whatever you want lies within you so put it to use.
Hard work is as important as prayer; back your prayers up with efforts for greater and better results.
Rejection hurts, but it’s always for a great reason because it leaves you stronger.
It’s totally okay to admire someone’s shoes but don’t ever wish you were in them. There’s no shoe that’d fit just like yours.
Ignorance is not bliss, asking is not weakness. Always seek knowledge.
It’s never too late to start.. just do it!
Don’t set deadlines for yourself because eventually, you’ll end up disappointed if things don’t work out.
You’ll hurt people and they’ll hurt you.
You need man as much as you need God so work towards keeping a healthy relationship with people and being at peace with them
.Your mistakes don’t define you so it’s okay to accept them and learn from them.
Don’t believe everything you hear; this will help you a lot in your relationships and friendships.
You’re loved more than you imagine.
Always speak to someone when you feel the need to, it might seem hard but it’d make you feel better.
Not everyone’s going to understand you and that’s fine…..you owe it to one.
Saying no to family and friends when it comes to business, money, credit issues are difficult but most times it’s one of the most necessary things to do in your life.
Patience is not easy but it pays off eventually.
Be one with your past, forgiveness is good for your healing.
We all have insecurities, some people are just best at covering theirs up… Nobody’s perfect baby!
Whew! we made it to number 24… Regardless of what you do; people will always talk. So live your life for you and no one else.

That’s it guys, I thought to share this few with you and I hope that you were able to grab one or two from this.

Thank you for dropping by; please say a little birthday prayer for me.

Until my next post,

Rayha.

In Fashion

what to wear on lazy day

April 21, 2019 2 Comments

It’s the weekend and you’re trying to rest from a long week but you have grocery shopping to do or a meet up, you’re battling with cramps and getting out bed is quite difficult, let alone dressing up.

Personally, I’m not a fan of looking scruffy (I don’t believe there’s anyone out there that’s a fan of that either). But if I got a dollar for all the times I’ve had to cringe at the way people show up looking not so nice, I’d sure be richer than Dangote.. lol!

We all experience down days when we don’t feel like doing anything at all and because of that, having comfortable outfits at your finger tip is really important. On days like this; Culottes, sneakers, jeggins, crop tops, T shirts, kimonos, jeans and a host of others are perfect for me.

Though, they could be quite tricky because there’s a really thin line between getting it right/wrong and of course I don’t want you to be out there in scruffy jeans and a baggy T shirt. So, in this post I styled a few looks that will leave you looking chic on your down days.

Look 1 – Oversized Top, Jeggins, Sneakers, Scarf and Backpack

This look is effortlessly stylish. I love the soft & stretchy nature of jeggings and how well it fits with an oversized top paired with a matching scarf and pair of sneakers. This can be worn for a hang out, to the mall or even to the movies. I love that I’m not doing too much and I still look and feel cool.

*Jeggings – A random store, Oversized Top – Thrift, Sneakers – Adidas, Glasses and backpack – Uyai*

Look 2 – Kimono, Tank top, Jean

I live for kimonos any day! They’re so breezy, convenient and everything. I love that you can just throw them on and show up anywhere in them… so, yeah! they’re perfect for down days. I styled this particular print kimono with a white tank top and jean. Notice how I matched the bag with the all white and my slippers with the Kimono?…. I know Fashunnn! (Lol) Did I also mention that glasses are a girl’s best friend on days like this? That’s because I’m too lazy for a make up too.

*Kimono – Rayha swish, Jeans – H&M, Bag – Chloe, Slippers – Made in Nigeria*

Look 3 – Culottes, Top, Mules

Culottes are soft and really comfortable, They give space for your skin to breath. So if you’re thinking of what to wear on that lazy day, keep your culottes close. I paired mine with this long sleeve top, mules and a vintage scarf. I Love the twist detail on the top too. Less they say, is more!

*Culottes – Thrift, Mules – Made in Nigeria, Top – A random store, Bag – Alie Express*

Look 4 – T shirt, Jean, Mules

T shirts are comfortable, I like that they don’t have to be so fitted to look great (doesn’t mean they should be so baggy too). Pair a T shirt with a nice jean, and brighten it up with a pair of stiletto mules on a lazy day. A little heel don’t hurt nobody. You can show up for a casual meeting in this. My T shirt is a DIY I did a while back, you can check it out here

*T shit – DIY by me, Stiletto Mules – Renaissance By Janet, Jean – ASOS*

Look 5 – Bodycon gown, Shirt, Sneakers

Bodycon gowns keep you warm and in shape, though the long ones can limit you from doing stuffs like trekking, hopping on one bus/car to another etc… but if you do agree with me, a lazy day is an uber day because no stress. So, yes! to a bodycon gown paired with a sneakers and shirt. I got the shirt from my mum’s wardrobe so I styled it one shoulder off and tied the front to avoid looking like a two year old in a twenty year old’s dress… lol!

*Bodycon gown – Thrift, Shirt – My mum’s wardrobe, Sneakers – Vans*

What are your thoughts? will you wear any of this on a lazy day? What’s your style like on a lazy day? I’ll like to know in the comment section.

If you read it to this point, Happy Easter! Have a blessed and lovely celebration.

Until my next post,

Stay Stylish!

Rayha

In Fashion

My favorite trends of the season

March 22, 2019 2 Comments

Trends as we all know, come and go. There’s a trend for every season and while it’s important to always keep your style on check, it’s also advisable not to jump on every trend.

You really don’t need to hop on every trend to be that fashionable chick. The essence of this post is for you to take what’s on trend and work with which of them fits your style, you should also think of ways to incorporate them into your existing closet. That way, your creative box comes to play and leaves you standing out in style.

Okay! enough of the formal talk…. lol. There’s so many stuff trending in the fashion world now and so I thought to share my favorites with y’all. Grab your notes because you’re about to learn a thing or two.

My favorite trends of the season

Tie-Dye: This is one retro fashion that’s making a come back and I’m really excited because it’s such a creative way to make designs. Aside from the fact that it soothes my style, I also love that it’s a simple DIY to do and can be styled up or down. So, Yes! to this trend. I’ll be hoping on it and also showing you how to make yours (in a blog post) if you’d like to join me.

Animal Prints: Over the years, prints have been in trend and we’ve been minimal with them but this time around, going bold and mixing them with bright colors is a thing. One thing I love about this trend is that animal prints sit perfectly on any skin tone. Another, has to be the fact you can go all dramatic with your prints while keeping your accessories, makeup, e.t.c minimal and still look beautiful.

Bows: Gone are the days when children’s clothing are the first that comes to mind when you hear bows. I’ve been following up with Paris Fashion Week, London Fashion Week, New York Fashion week, & a host of others and I see them bows making statement on the runways. They give this beautiful detailing and they’re enough to take that outfit from Zero to hundred. So whether it’s a bow on the waist, bust, back or shoulder region… you’re good to go! I’m definitely going to be trying this out to that event. Just invite me… lol.

Exaggerated hats: Did someone say beach time? (Lol) Hats have always been a trend but I love that the fact this time around its all extra. You’ll agree with me that hats are really good statement pieces and they can be paired with any outfit- suit, dress, overalls, and so many others. So i’ll be giving this extra trend a try.

Sequin: I can’t remember sequin never being a trend, it has always been around. There’s really not much to say about sequin because it’s glittery nature speaks a lot for itself. It’s perfect for all kinds of occasion and style so if you’re thinking of how to show up for that next event, go the sequin way.

Another trend that’s mind blowing right now is matching your outfits with your accessories, it could be with your head wraps or hats. You can even decide to go Gothic with it if you like. For me, this particular trend is a classic and definitely one to catch up with.

That’s it guys. I’d like to know what trends are your favorite and which one you’ll be hoping on in the comment section.

I’d also love to see your pictures if you try them out. Please feel free to tag me here

Until my next post,

Hugs and Rayha kisses.